4 Month Sleep Regression
September 4, 2024
Let’s Talk about the 4 Month Sleep Regression
Welcome to your child’s first official sleep regression. This regression has a lot of meaning and there are a number of reasons for it! Knowing those reasons can help you improve your child’s sleep so that you can come through the other side of this with a well-rested baby!
First, let’s look back. The first four months may have been filled with irregular sleep patterns and sleep may have often been unorganized. This happens because infants younger than 4 months of age (adjusted to the due date if the baby was born early), have immature sleep biology. Your baby’s interval clock (circadian rhythms) and sleep hormone (melatonin) were not yet fully intact.
Reasons for the 4 Month Sleep Regression
At 4 months old, your baby will begin to have more defined light and deep sleep cycles, just like we do. When your child is transitioning between sleep cycles, they are more likely to wake and not transition to the next sleep cycle. This transition process from one sleep cycle to the next can be hard for little ones who can’t put themselves back to sleep. This is often the reason for short naps and multiple night wakings.
Your baby may need an adjustment in their sleep schedule. If your baby is not sleeping at the right time or going to bed too late, there is another hormone that has matured and that is called cortisol. Cortisol is a stimulant that will give your overtired baby the message to stay awake.
Also, where your baby sleeps can cause sleep disruptions. Before 4 months of age, your baby may have been able to sleep anywhere. A new baby can sleep on the go and even in a noisy and busy environment. However, due to the development of the circadian rhythms, your little one will wake much easier when things are busy, noisy, or bright.
Another cause of the 4 months sleep regression is skill building! If your baby is working on the skill of rolling, you will see sleep disruptions. Who wants to sleep when they can practice this amazing new game? This can be an exciting and frustrating time for your baby. Often babies learn to roll one way first, but then get stuck, which can be frustrating, and they will “call” for you to help them out.
What To Do to Get Through The 4-Month Regression
Now that we looked at what the 4-month sleep regression is, here are tips to help your baby become a well-rested baby and get Backtozzzs. It is the perfect time to start your child on a path to healthy sleep habits.
1. If you have not yet done so, begin to offer naps and night sleep in a consistent and conducive sleep environment. Offering sleep in the same place each time will help your baby become comfortable in their sleep space. Now that your little one’s melatonin is intact, darkness will help support this hormone. Darkness tells the body that it is time to sleep. I also recommend using a sound machine to keep outside noise outside. This will be helpful when your child is transitioning sleep cycles and going into lighter stages of sleep.
2. Begin to offer a soothing and consistent sleep routine before each nap and bedtime. This will help your child learn what to expect and what is coming next. This is a wonderful cue that will help your child’s mind and body relax and prepare for sleep.
3. It might be time to adjust your little one’s sleep schedule. Instead of offering sleep on a wake-window schedule, start to offer your baby sleep at consistent times each day. It is also important to move bedtime earlier. Early bedtime is a key ingredient in helping your baby stay well-rested. At this age, you are aiming for 3 naps a day (2 long naps and a short cat nap) with an early bedtime.
4. If you are ready, you can begin to teach your little on to fall asleep unassisted through sleep training. Sleep training is where you use your sleep routine to relax your baby, but not to put your baby to sleep. Instead, you put your baby in the crib awake. From there, you use a sleep training method to respond. There are a number of sleeping training methods to choose from. I suggest picking one with which you are most comfortable. The key ingredient in sleep training is consistency! So, choice the method you feel you can be consistent with.
5. If your child is working on the skill of rolling, do a lot of floor and tummy time to practice this skill! The sooner they master this skill, the sooner they will be able to make themselves comfortable in their safe sleep space.
Even though this is an exhausting time. The 4-month regression is actually good news. Now that your child has developed circadian rhythms, you can now start to teach the skill of independent sleep if that is something with which you are comfortable. If so, a sleep plan can be put in place that will allow for healthy and restorative sleep!
If you need help and support putting together a full sleep plan, Backtozzzs has you covered. Reach out to set up a free 15-minute consultation to find out how our sleep training process works! You will not be alone in the process!
It is coming. March 9th the time will spring one hour ahead. The springtime change means that your child’s sleep may need some adjusting. When we change our clocks on March 9th we will move our clock forward one hour. Your child’s schedule will be off one hour which could result in sleep disruptions and bedtime battles. If your child usually wakes up at 6:00 am, that now means they will be waking up at 7:00 am. This may appear to be a good thing, but that also may mean your child will want to go to bed an hour later. This can easily start the cycle of going into an overtired state. Adjustments will need to be made to prevent this from happening. The good news is your child will adjust to the time change. You just need to prepare, be patient, and be consistent. Here are a couple of methods to help your child deal with Day Light Saving Time. Method One: The Ease into It Approach When daylight savings time is approaching, you can prepare your child ahead of time by adjusting everything little by little. We have to adjust for one hour in their schedule. To do the gradual change, you shift your day forward in 15-minute increments. You can start this a week or more ahead of time allowing for a couple of days at each interval change. We would start the bedtime about 15 minutes earlier each day. For example, if your child’s bedtime is 7:00 PM you would put them down to bed at 6:45 PM for a couple of nights. After a couple of days of the 6:30 PM bedtime, you would bump it up to 6:15 PM. You would adjust the time every two to three days until you reach the one-hour mark. You also want to adjust the morning wake-up and all naps and meals, so everything is in place. In using the gradual method, your child will be adjusted by the time the big day arrives. Method Two: The “Just Do It” Approach For this method, you just rip off the band-aid on D-Day. On the day of the time change, you shift everything accordingly. We also want to keep in mind that your little one might be tired for up to a week as they adjust. If they lose sleep due to the time change then compensate for the lost sleep by offering an extra early bedtime so that they do not collect a sleep debt. Tips For Both Approaches Make sure the room is extra dark for each sleep cycle to help the body shift the production of melatonin as your child adjusts to the new time change. The better rested your child is going into the shift in time, the better they will adjust. Choose a method that fits your child’s temperament best. If your child has a hard time with change or is sleep-sensitive, then the “Ease Into It Method” might work best for your family. If your child is flexible and handles change rather smoothly then the direct “Just Do It Method” might be the option for your child. Help your child adjust to the time change as well as any other disruptions to the sleep schedule by being consistent It is important to have a consistent soothing routine. The sleep routine is a wonderful cue to your child that it is time for their bodies and minds to start to relax and get ready for sleep. It may take about a week until your little one has completely adjusted, so be patient with the process. Consistency is also important when we respond to wakings and protests. While your child adjusts to the disruption in the sleep schedule your consistent response will remind them of the sleep rules and help get them back on track. It may take about a week until your little one has completely adjusted, so be patient with the process. You got this! If you need help with your child’s overall sleep. I offer a free 15-minute introductory call. I can share with you how I work with clients to see if sleep training might be a good fit for your family. Email me at Backtozzzs@gmail.com to set it up.
The 80/20 Rule, for When Life Happens! If you have ever worked with me on sleeping training with your little one, you will know my #1 tool to reach success. It is to be consistent. Being consistent is the key to getting and keeping sleep on track. It is important while sleep training to offer dedicated time with that consistent message so that your little one will have the opportunity to learn the new skills and routines that are needed for successful sleep training. Once you have your little one consistently sleeping well, then what? Does your child’s schedule mean that you can’t celebrate holidays, have day outings, or take vacations? Does that mean you have to decline all offers for fun activities? The answer is no. You can make exceptions and still keep your child well-rested. This is where the 80/20 Rule comes in. What is the 80/20 Rule? The 80/20 Rule means that you stick to your healthy consistent sleep schedule 80% of the time. You then can make exceptions to your schedule 20% of the time. I want to highlight that this rule is for children who are already well-rested and have healthy sleep habits. The 80/20 Rule allows you to “live life” and enjoy those special moments with your family. If your family is celebrating a birthday, a holiday, going on vacation, or has a doctor’s appointment during nap time these are times you can use this rule. 80% of the time you stick to the well-established healthy sleep schedule and then 20% of the time, when you have an event, you have the option to skip naps, go off track on the timing of sleep, take naps on the go, or have a later bedtime. Each child is unique, and their sleep needs and temperaments are different. Some kiddos that are flexible and able to handle change will bounce back without issue. Other children are more sensitive to change and have a harder time dealing with any deviation in timing. For these little ones who are sensitive to change, you might want to consider that the 80/20 Rule isn’t always worth it and be very picky about when you push the limits. You might want to think about a 90/10 Rule. Here are some tips when using the 80/20 Rule: Get right back on track as early as possible. Your child may push back a bit but be consistent. You already know that your child knows what to do. They just need the reminder and the security of their usual routine. Offer early bedtime so that any sleep debt is quickly replenished. Enjoy 20% of your time with your family. Make memories, relax, and know that the healthy sleep habits that you have previously established will allow for more enjoyment during your special family time. I am here to help. If you need help getting your child’s sleep on track so that you can enjoy the benefit of the 80/20 Rule, let’s talk! Email me at backtozzzs@gmail.com to set up a free 15-minute introductory call where I can tell you more about how I work with clients.
It is coming. November 3rd will be the time to move the clocks back one hour! The fall time change means that your child’s sleep will need to be adjusted. Just when you got your little one back on a schedule after the summertime fun, here comes another bump in the road that can mess up your hard work. Your child’s schedule will be off one hour which could result in early wakeups and bedtime battles. If your child usually wakes up at 7:00 am, that now means they will be waking up at 6:00 am. It can also mean that your child will fight when it comes to bedtime as they may not be ready for the usual 6:30 pm bedtime if their bodies are telling them, it is only 5:30 pm. The good news is your child will adjust to the time change. You just need to prepare, be patient, and be consistent. Here are a couple of methods to help your child deal with Day Light Saving Time. Method One: The Gradual Approach You can prepare your child ahead of time by adjusting everything little by little. We have to adjust for one hour in their schedule. To do the gradual change, you can begin to shift your day back in 15-minute increments. You can start 8 days ahead of November 3rd, allowing for a couple of days at each interval change. We would start bedtime about 15 minutes later each day. For example, if your child’s bedtime is 6:30 pm, you would put them to bed at 6:45 for a couple of nights. After a couple of days of the 6:45 pm bedtime, you would bump it up to 7:00 pm. You should adjust the time every two days until you reach the one-hour mark of 7:30 pm (which will be the new 6:30 when the time changes). You also need to adjust the morning wake-up and all naps and meals, so everything is in place. In using the gradual method, your child will be adjusted by the time November 3rd comes along. Method Two: The “Jump Right In” Method For this method, you just rip off the band-aid on D-day. On the day of the time change, you shift everything accordingly. We will want to make sure the room is extra dark for each sleep cycle to help the body shift the production of melatonin as your child adjusts to the new time change. We also want to keep in mind that your little one might be tired for up to a week as they adjust. If they lose sleep due to the time change then compensate for the lost sleep by offering an extra early bedtime so that they do not collect a sleep debt. The better rested your child is going into the shift in time, the better they will adjust. Choose a method that fits your child’s temperament best. If your child has a hard time with change or is sleep-sensitive, then the gradual approach might work best for your family. If your child is flexible and handles change smoothly then the direct approach might be the option for your child. A tip to help your child adjust to the time change as well as any other disruptions to the sleep schedule is to be consistent. It is important to have a consistent soothing routine. The sleep routine is a wonderful cue to your child that it is time for their bodies and minds to start to relax and get ready for sleep. Consistency is also important when we respond to wakings and protests. While your child adjusts to the disruption in the sleep schedule your consistent response will remind them of the sleep rules and help get them back on track. It may take about a week until your little one has completely adjusted, so be patient with the process. You got this!!!